I’m about to go controversial again: I just got back from three events across Kentucky and California, running Executive Roundtables where business owners share their biggest obstacles to landing corporate clients. I’ve been doing these Roundtables for 10 years – at least one or two a month in cities across the US. So I feel uniquely qualified to tell you something: the barriers you think are stopping you aren’t barriers at all. They’re lies. Myths. Beliefs you’ve told yourself so many times that you see the world through the filter of that belief. Let me give you a fresh perspective on all of them. And yes, some of these are bound to stir controversy.

Lie #1: I’ll Get More Sales When I Hire a New Sales Rep

I just hung up with a prospect on this exact topic. I already have clients with full sales teams who still need help. They still don’t know who to target, how to differentiate, what their super niche pain point is, how to position against competitors. They’re missing strategy. And here’s the thing: sales reps aren’t trained or qualified to figure out your go-to-market messaging, and marketing strategy. Neither are you. I hired a marketing strategist for my own company because I’m too close to it. Even my clients who are marketing agencies themselves need help figuring out their positioning and niche.

A new sales rep is just going to add to the confusion. And most business owners are betting everything on the rep’s own expertise, experience, and rolodex. To add insult to injury, a seasoned sales manager once told me that good salespeople never become unemployed – you have to poach them while they’re still employed. If a salesperson is out of work, that’s usually a red flag. In sales, you eat what you kill. You get paid based on what you’re selling. If someone’s not selling, something’s wrong.

The reality is hiring more reps rarely helps you figure out your actual go-to-market strategy and differentiator.

Lie #2: Sales Will Grow Once I Implement This AI Program or Process or Move My Facilities

None of these things – including AI – will give you strategy. You can ask AI all you want, but until you actually go out and talk to real buyers, figure out their pain points, understand how they purchase, how they think about the purchase, what they’re bleeding money on, how they word that pain, you won’t have a differentiator. Your strategy comes from one place only: a combination of decades of experience figuring out what works, added to your own warm leads and network insights, added to your vision for where you want the company to go. That unique combination is what grows sales. Not software. Not moving. Not AI.

Lie #3: Our Sales Will Increase Once I Can Spend More Time on It

Two business owners told me this just today. They said if they could just liberate their time to do more follow-up, they’d get more sales. But then I asked – when you’re meeting all these potential leads, are they actually leads? Or are they just people who might –if you get lucky, introduce you to potential leads? Your marketing isn’t attracting the right audience. Your messaging isn’t sticky enough to make them immediately ask for an appointment because they’re in pain and bleeding money. You’re not intercepting them where they live about the fact that you’re an expert in their specific problem.

Everyone has 24 hours a day. A billionaire has the same 24 hours you do. When someone says “I don’t have time,” what they really mean is “it’s not a priority.” And second, they’re not leveraging the time they’re already spending strategically. They’re not attracting the right clients or converting them fast enough. More hours won’t fix bad strategy.

Lie #4: Our Sales Don’t Grow Because I’m the Only Person Doing Sales

This is just another version of lie #1. People think if they hire someone else or introduce a process or software, they’ll liberate their time. But you could have 100 extra hours and it still wouldn’t matter. You still wouldn’t know your differentiator, your super niche hook, what door openers to send, what sticky messaging arrests people in their tracks. That’s strategy. It’s not given to you by having more hours. It’s the work you do on your business, not in it.

Lie #5: Once My Book or Program Launches, I’ll Make More Sales

I’ve never met anyone who got rich off a book unless they’re in the top 1% with massive media and PR behind them. Same for online programs, in-person programs, retreats. You still have to figure out who to target, what to say, what your differentiator is, what their pain point is, what your entry point is into that pain. Your book and program have to support that strategy. They have to hold together. If you’re doing two completely different things, you’ll confuse everyone in your messaging.

Never launch something without first figuring out which industry or interest group you need to target. What specific pain are they bleeding dollars over? If you don’t know that first, you’re launching blind.

Lie #6: Once I Get This Certificate or Accreditation, Sales Will Increase

I see this a lot with academics, coaches, scientists, psychiatrists – they get so hung up on the title, the credibility, the extra letters next to their name. They think “Once I have that, I’ll become a sales magnet.” Maybe if people are actively searching and googling for that credential. But you still have to figure out which industry or interest group needs you most. Who’s suffering the most? What specific problem are they bleeding dollars over? In B2B, pain is measured in dollars. That’s what they speak.

I fell into this trap myself. I got my ACC certification from the International Coach Federation the second I launched my business. I thought people would be running to me. They didn’t. There were thousands of accredited coaches vying for the same business. It wasn’t until I super-niched into being an elevator pitch coach for small women business owners in diverse communities that I got real traction. That’s what I learned from launching seven to 10 new products a year at Pepsi – you have to be super-niched, differentiated, targeted, solving one very specific problem.

Lie #7: Sales Will Increase Once the Market Gets Better

I’ve had calls with people Internationally this week. The market is rocky everywhere in the world. People are having flat sales for years. But here’s the thing – the people who are succeeding aren’t waiting for the market to improve. They’re changing the way they do things. They’re looking at the market with new possibilities. They’re going after the pain points that exist right now in today’s market. If you have to pivot next year, you use the same strategy markers to pivot to another specialty, another industry. It’s about finding the right one for the right market at the right time.

Lie #8: My Business Is Down Because My Client’s Businesses Were Down

That’s a lie you tell yourself. Your business is down because you haven’t changed anything. You haven’t done anything specifically tailored to people in pain. Maybe you need to launch something addressing current pain – tariffs, new trends, market changes. But if you’re not shifting strategically with what the market needs, that’s on you. I’ve talked to businesses that succeeded in this exact turmoil. They didn’t lose. They grew. Because they took advantage of changes or changed with the market. Your clients’ struggles aren’t your excuse.

Lie #9: You Have to Be in the Right Place at the Right Time

Only 5% of any audience is ready to buy today. Most aren’t ready, especially in service businesses. If you’re selling B2B services to corporations, sales cycles can be three months to 18 months to multiple years. So no, you don’t have to be in the right place at the right time. What you need is the right marketing to the right industries with the right strategy so you’re visible enough and frequent enough. It takes 7 to 12 touches before someone buys. If your marketing plan places you 7 to 12 times in front of your exact target buying group – virtually or in person – within a short timeframe, that’s when sales increase. It has nothing to do with luck or timing.

Lie #10: We Can Figure Out Our Strategy and Niche Ourselves

I’ve never seen anyone figure this out strategically. I’ve only seen business owners fall into a super niche by accident. A niche is chosen because one client requested it. Or because the owner saw a pain point and reacted. It grew from there. But my clients actually put the whole market on a piece of paper – all the industries, interest groups, all the pain points they could solve – and then test it with real prospects to find which problem is the most expensive and salient? That’s when they niche based on actual market research, not by accident.

These aren’t barriers standing in your way. They’re beliefs. False beliefs you’ve told yourself to keep yourself where you are. I’m not the only answer to these limiting beliefs, but I’ve never seen them be obstacles for me or my clients in getting new business. So I hope this fills you with hope. The problem was never real. It was always just what you believed.

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